Monday, 21 January 2008

I hate you guys with narrow minds and stupid attitudes.

No, not all guys, just you people.
You people who think so narrow mindedly. You people who think girly physical contact is taboo (no, i don't care if you're joking, I do not like it.) but still end up wrestling like heck with your guy-pals.
Put it this way to you........
I'm a girl. I get lonely. And I'm Kinda tactile-oversensitive and all. Which means I like physical contact. I like hugs. Not the girly kind, the kind where you don't even touch,the air-kiss thing, i like hard hugs.you people do NOT know how to hug.
so yes, when I'm lonely, I need hugs. I will take hugs. Since the people I actually want to hug aren't around, and you guys.....well I'm not that close to you.....so, I will hug the girls. I will hold them. from the back, like, and I will rest my head on their shoulder and talk to you. They don't seem to mind it, do they?
Then why do you?
And so, knowing that it gets me pretty pissed and will make me go all sulky for a while, don't ever EVER call my habit of hugging my friends as lesbian. Ok? they're just standbys for the ones i actually want to hug.
I'm straight. Ok?
Good. Do not call me that.

22 comments:

taurius1 said...

HM...
I've been called gay for stuff as scandalous as talking about why I think milind soman looks better than John Abraham, to stuff as trivial as prefering to read a nice book over watching the swimsuit contest on TV. :/
Come to think of it, almost all the stuff I do and love as well as the stuff I don't do has somehow been equated to "Mihir = gay" at some point or the other. >_<

Kids can be cruel. Try not to let it get to your head so much. I don't think the aforementioned narrow minded people deserve so much thought from your end.

Espèra said...

I swear.
The lesbian thing. It totally sucks.
If physical contact of any kind were to determine the sexuality, everybody'd be bisexual then, if only because both the parents hug their kids.

bluebutterfly said...

i so totally agree with you ...
goin arm in arm with a GAL-friend of mine is acting "homo".... wow what is the world comin toooo .... narrow mindedness at its maximum....
you doing air kisses and pooh-aah's is cool ... and us hugging each other is being cheap and lesbian....
air kissing is soooo superficial !!!...

kudos to you !!
great post!

Anuj said...

Just peace-out I have been accused of being roughly everything from a huge flirt to a "robosexual" (don't ask). It doesn't matter what they say what mattters is what you are. Period.

Truth Junkie said...

Na na na na na na na na na na....
;)

taurius1 said...

robosexual

Why does that word remind me of some weird japanese hentai fetish? >_<

Mystique said...

2 taurius: it's sad, really....and no, not cruel, i know they're joking, but i still kinda don't like it.....

2 espera: yeesh. parents hugging kids is ok, but a 16 year old girl hugging another is not. supposedly. hmph...

2 butterfly: air kisses are cold and have no emotion. hugs=love=joy and a lot of other things. you can communicate so much with one tight hug.....

2 anuj: robosexual??? attraction towards machines??

2 aiman: oh shut up.....

2 taurius: hm............................

Truth Junkie said...

Maybe i will..
Maybe i wont...
Lol..
i don't rally know wat to say...
Wateva i have to tell i tell when we speak anyways...
So....

HA ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ...
La la la la la la la la la la!!!!
:D

persona non grata. said...

You know, I wouldn't be insulted if someone called me a lesbian. I don't know; there's certainly nothing wrong with being one.

I wouldn't even be upset. I mean, I don't see homosexuals being annoyed by being called 'straight'. I don't know, perhaps my convoluted logic is just that- convoluted.

I believe that affection is just that. And it should be taken in the spirit it is given in. If other's perceive it in some other sense, let them.

Their perversity. Their stupidity. Tell them to stop getting all VHP on your arse and to go patrol some Bombay parks or whatever they do in their free time.

Now, that is an insult. Equating them to a political party with ties to an 'army' based on Mussolini's Black Shirts.

plzdonttrythisathome said...

In the End why do you people give a fuck..?

Mystique said...

2 aiman: strangulation coming your way. irritant....

2 non-grata: your convoluted logic makes complete sense.

Anuj said...

I told you not to ask, I prefer not to discuss my personal life on the internet-no I am NOT attracted to machines but I agree with persona non grata all of this seems to be a tad homophobic to me & I really want to bring the terror back to the VHP-imagine using sarin on their headquarters or something like operation wrath of god except we would call it wrath of FSM (flying spaghetti monster in case you're wondering, I am pious pastafarian).

Wells said...

Ugh. You're post is the truest archetype of ISM's juvenile behaviour. Don't let it bother you 'cus it's not worth it, THEY'RE not worth it. As I said it's this whole region's way of trying to say they can be as "hip" as the rest of the world is, by calling any same gender people touching, gay or lesbian.

Espèra said...

Persona Non Grata: You're right. It seems like being homosexual is a completely bad thing. It isn't. It's just, can't we do something without being "labelled"?
But yes again, it just sounds like I'm justifying myself.

Mystique: About Anuj. He's accused of being sexually attracted towards robots. There are alternate rumours too, though.

taurius1 said...

sexually attracted to robots? ANYONE WHO WATCHES ANIME IS! there's been too many cute / hot / sexy looking androids with their own shows to not like robots.
*concludes post before kinky ideas creep into the reply*

freudian slip said...

hey hey hey lets get this straight, pun intended and im being inappropriate here, any guy who doesnt appreciate the sheer joy in watching two chicks wrestle is most definitely on the wrong side of the road.!!! either that or hes disobeying one of the guy stereotypes, you know, the pajama fighting sleepover fantasies.

but seriously, i do agree, the gay thing is kinda stupid, and really honestly speaking, the air kissing is kinda sad, and frequently pisses me off . a good bear hug, on the other hand never hurt anyone.

and yes before i do decide to go kinky, i completely understand taurius's explanation on robosexuality, anime is hot!!!

Mystique said...

2 venky: they're jealous.

2 anuj:......

2 wells: ah yes...you know of it...

2 espera: it's not just the orientation....anything can label you....

2 taurius: ah. i totally understand...

2 rushi: just a clarification here....two girls screaming at each other as they talk to you on the phone......are fully clothed.

Espèra said...

Well, yes. Just plain labelling. That IS what I meant.

Truth Junkie said...

woohoo!!!!

taurius1 said...

"woohoo?"
What, are you trying out for the Official MystiqueSpeak Cheerleading Squad?
:-P
please spare me the visuals, then. short skirts and hairy legs don't quite go too well together.

Mystique said...

2 aiman: enough.

2 taurius: naah, that's just aiman being his crazy confused self.

Mystique said...

In retrospect....this is irony.