tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post6422797993459475442..comments2023-11-03T16:53:36.748+04:00Comments on MystiqueSpeak: I hate people who make us feel bad about our bodies.....and other things.Mystiquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03822962164638092431noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-54492891023631355752008-05-02T13:32:00.000+04:002008-05-02T13:32:00.000+04:00It's not true that 'everyone' has body issues. I d...It's not true that 'everyone' has body issues. I don't. I absolutely love the way I look and get complimented all the time. it seems like you're generalising a lot.dreamsmithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04091577359361523130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-75024750264591929562008-04-03T19:23:00.000+04:002008-04-03T19:23:00.000+04:00i agree with what you said, its ridiculous when bo...i agree with what you said, its ridiculous when boys judge girls by the way they look. im curvy i wouldnt say im fat, iv been through eating disorders, in and out. a lot actually, but it has made me become a stronger person, someone i could never be. iv realised that if i don't love my body and me then nobody will. plus, have i had issues with people calling me names? yes, they still do, constantly some names haunt me, but you know what? i am not fat, im curvy, iv got nice boobs, no gigantic but i like them and iv got a nice tush. something id want. i think its absolutely marvelous for you to love your body and really put down how you feel, not a lot of people can do that now. anyways i appreciate your writings, come check mine out sometime! <3 buh bye hun.<BR/>xxilikestrawberryPANCAKES.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10144298510668024642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-89220319063646936722008-03-25T22:32:00.000+04:002008-03-25T22:32:00.000+04:00hmm, very nicely written. very very very nicely.. ...hmm, very nicely written. very very very nicely.. :)<BR/>ur very expressive, precise and honest. love dat bout you :)<BR/><BR/>body issues, dont we all have em sigh.. i have this thing bout my nose. i hate my nose. sigh.<BR/>i think am fat too.<BR/>sigh.<BR/>but at the end of the day, nothin matters.. u arent livin to impress nyone nyways. :)<BR/>so long as ur healthy, no worries!busy-writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06790162433268450916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-23856959196717453402008-03-25T16:14:00.000+04:002008-03-25T16:14:00.000+04:002 niyara: Thank you for thinking like me......2 im...2 niyara: Thank you for thinking like me......<BR/><BR/>2 impressionist: thank you....<BR/><BR/>2 bubbles: so write now na??<BR/><BR/>2 xh: too true.....Mystiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03822962164638092431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-41791766142699190572008-03-24T15:32:00.000+04:002008-03-24T15:32:00.000+04:00hm.. i agree - figure have a lot to decide the cha...hm.. i agree - figure have a lot to decide the chances of a grl getting a guy - as much as the guys fat purse decides the chance of him being with that hot chick. But not every one is like that... and those who see over the body/purse/bike/cars r those who at times actualy gets a sneak peak at what we really are..and are well woth having than 10 glam dumb guys/chicks.--xh--https://www.blogger.com/profile/12695674712856611416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-69369989066006171002008-03-24T13:10:00.000+04:002008-03-24T13:10:00.000+04:00oooohhh me ws in ds mood a few days bk n so wantd ...oooohhh me ws in ds mood a few days bk n so wantd 2 write abt it 2 bt my laptop hd a virus tat i managd 2 kill 2day...<BR/><BR/>n i agree wid snitch... u hv 2 b comfortable in ur own skin...Occasional Brilliancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01920938071016465521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-6302077741319169692008-03-24T07:37:00.000+04:002008-03-24T07:37:00.000+04:00heh! :DI wud always prefer a girl with a pretty fa...heh! :D<BR/>I wud always prefer a girl with a pretty face than the one with Humongous boobies! :P<BR/><BR/>-IImpressionisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00732915252931492149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-7838140935412727462008-03-24T03:53:00.000+04:002008-03-24T03:53:00.000+04:00ive always been mega skinny, and i hated, and stil...ive always been mega skinny, and i hated, and still hate when people comment on it. "your too skinny, you need to put on weight". or "you've lost weight" *disgusted look*. <BR/><BR/>You wouldn't say to someone "OH look at you, you've put on weight. your so FAT"<BR/><BR/>so unfair :'(Niiyarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08870461723664684885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-53994677642987115342008-03-23T16:56:00.000+04:002008-03-23T16:56:00.000+04:002 png: and then every once in a while, someone lik...2 png: and then every once in a while, someone like you comes and metaphorically bashes me on the back of the head and makes me spit out all the crap that formulates in my head.....thank you.Mystiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03822962164638092431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-39644286418707822342008-03-23T13:00:00.000+04:002008-03-23T13:00:00.000+04:00Hmm.This is going to sound hypocritical (to myself...Hmm.<BR/><BR/>This is going to sound hypocritical (to myself, mostly) but I have been pondering (and battling) body issues for a while now; there's a lot of time and effort and energy I've expended on something that I really shouldn't care so much about.<BR/><BR/>What is the point, really? <BR/><BR/>Your post seems to have focused so much on what you think 'popularity' means and the prerequisites to be 'popular'; on your ideas of 'femininity'; on what you reckon men (or boys) really want. I might just say there's a lot of 'you' thinking, reckoning and assuming. I don't disagree with what you've said; I've spent enough time agonising over it already. I'd just like to say that this is after all, <I>your</I> perception of things; just as it used to be mine. It's basically up to you to look at it a different way. And no, a girls' personality has nothing to do with her bra-size... unless she makes it. If she's obsessing over spilling over or not filling up; it makes her less confident, more paranoid and just.. insecure. <BR/><BR/>I will, at some point, come by and rip apart the gender stereotyping and gender socialisation rampant in this post; but in the meantime; our bodies are how we project them. If you see yourself as a 'tomboy' (which is a rather sexist term) then so be and damn the world. A woman can never be separated from her body issues; I guarantee you that; but perhaps if you shift your paradigm a bit it won't affect you as much. <BR/><BR/>Oh and, props on the AD mention. Heh. Nostalgia, it always hits from behind.risha;https://www.blogger.com/profile/02089879989126434720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-50281089187616096032008-03-23T10:01:00.000+04:002008-03-23T10:01:00.000+04:002 rings: yeah. I get.2 taurius: Hmmmm. That I have...2 rings: yeah. I get.<BR/><BR/>2 taurius: Hmmmm. That I have. :)<BR/><BR/>2 Butterfly: the weight is not a problem....the weight Issues are. It's ok to be the shape you are, but I don't think any guy will like their girl complaining all the time as to how she hates her body.....<BR/>People tell me, you're lucky you're so thin, I'd die to look like you....'tis true I'd prefer being this way because it's how I've always been....<BR/>But they don't see the flipsyde of it....people wondering whether I'm anorexic (far from it)....random strangers coming up to my mom and laughingly asking "don't you feed your daughter??"<BR/>yes, that I don't like. Mind your own business you people....Mystiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03822962164638092431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-26591828742599366562008-03-22T21:29:00.000+04:002008-03-22T21:29:00.000+04:00i was a bit hesitant about this reading this post ...i was a bit hesitant about this reading this post after i read the title .... <BR/>its bit of a sensitive topic with me,i have bodily issues ,like big bodily issues ,like never ending bodily issues ...<BR/>and its always there at the back of my mind when i do anything ... and to say the least its so very frustrating <BR/>i am tall and *fat*.... <BR/>i like to think of myself as plump and healthy ... but well thats not what the others think .<BR/>i almost became bulimic at a point of time , recovered (coz i love food far too much) and now am back to being fat again <BR/>in high school that is what they do ... judge you by your body .. atleast my experience ...... i have a friend who is anorexic coz she wants to look great for her guy ....(which is sick in my opinion) <BR/>if i eat celery for a month i will still gain weight ... dynamics of the body system ... my mother says ... <BR/>guys would anyday go for a anorexic girl than one with weight issues ... <BR/><BR/>sometimes its almost like <BR/>"i am fat ... so kill me" ... but then again its my body ... i will do what i wanna do....and i like it the way it is ...Princess Consuela Banana Hammockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11703953092910727187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-84757466990108188012008-03-22T12:26:00.000+04:002008-03-22T12:26:00.000+04:00Hmm... in my experience, most of my guy friends en...Hmm... in my experience, most of my guy friends end up liking a girl with a nice face more than a girl with a nice rack. <BR/><BR/>^_^<BR/>Happy holi.Mihir Patharehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08575895019429443482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-81833845963161850582008-03-22T08:45:00.000+04:002008-03-22T08:45:00.000+04:00I was truly, will-give-anything-to-be-thin anorexi...I was truly, will-give-anything-to-be-thin anorexic.. Was scared of putting even a morsel in my mouth... Need I be more descriptive?five_silver_ringshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04615359559048711467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-4451898970269954012008-03-21T21:51:00.000+04:002008-03-21T21:51:00.000+04:002 espera: yesh. thengyoo.big lols2 snitch: Multipl...2 espera: yesh. thengyoo.<BR/>big lols<BR/><BR/>2 snitch: Multiple thank yous...I was wondering if I knew anyone who prefered slim girls....I know I would if I was a guy....<BR/><BR/>2 lemonade: Always good to know that....<BR/><BR/>2 rings: Anorexic. as in anorexically skinny, or truly anorexic?<BR/>And yeah, I agree with the rest of what you say...<BR/><BR/>2 rushi: ah. you. this was meant for guys like you. Ok, ok, fine, but that was just because you know me better than most people, and I'm a raving maniac. Madame sulagna is fine. And yeah, john'd kill me for gaining weight....still. a few kilos wouldn't hurt.......Mystiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03822962164638092431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-81492945484685808692008-03-21T18:16:00.000+04:002008-03-21T18:16:00.000+04:00yes yes jump on the im depressed when im in my und...yes yes jump on the im depressed when im in my undies bandwagon. come on shalaka, u know if someone as shallow as me gets knocked over once in a while by you , ur doing pretty well for yourself.<BR/> u talking about sulagna?? whts she upto, give her my hate, expect a lot more in return.<BR/><BR/> plus a bust on you and ud have to say goodbye to your athletic ambitions, atleast jumping for sure. ud look like a popsicle with walnuts for gods sake.<BR/><BR/>yes yes im sorry if i brought upon this hideous estrogen laden post of yours.freudian sliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07784033111061867450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-13431767967312590132008-03-21T15:51:00.000+04:002008-03-21T15:51:00.000+04:00Moocho Impresso.. I liked this post.. Kind of remi...Moocho Impresso.. I liked this post.. Kind of reminded me of my own self..Except for the fact, that as opposed to your figure, I was REALLY chubby as a kid, obese till I turned 15.. Anorexic until I passed 17.. and now, I guess I fall under the category of 'normal'... But then again, define normal? <BR/>However, I have been through those stages in my life where I've detested the shape of my body.. for like I said, I was obese at one point of time... <BR/>You crib about being too thin? I used to crib about being humongous... But don't cha worry dear girl, I'm sure you look pretty darn good any way...<BR/>Besides, you shouldn't care about that waist line, bra sizes, or those round buttocks... I say, the intellect rules all the way baby! Honestly, I never see or find myself falling for 'good-looking' men, it's those brains that attract me.. Now, do you 'really' think that body matters when it comes to relationships? Nuh uh!<BR/>But then again, I am a woman.. for most men certain 'assets' of the female anatomy are important.. However trust me when I say this, the 'right' men will always fall for your head, not those essentials that follow below it.five_silver_ringshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04615359559048711467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-44994806388885340292008-03-21T15:09:00.000+04:002008-03-21T15:09:00.000+04:00i love the way you write..i love the way you write..lemonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05528247138263661583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-77793935598045471932008-03-21T14:58:00.000+04:002008-03-21T14:58:00.000+04:00Firstly, about the bodily issues. There's this one...Firstly, about the bodily issues. There's this one thing, till the time you're comfortable with your body and the kind of clothes you wear, it's all fine. I'm way too thin, and I'm short and everybody keeps reminding me that. I don't care because people have to find some or the other fault in you. Long term, doesn't really matter.<BR/><BR/>I'm a guy, I go around with guys and from personal experience, I can tell you that the guys who only go after boobs and hips are absolute jerks. They have brains with comprehension power equal to that of an Amoeba. They might be good looking yes, but when you try talking to them, they will be complete disasters. I've seen it too many times. And all guys have different preferences, you know. There are a lot of guys who like skinny chicks. I personally do. Not everybody goes around finding a girl with the hugest boobs possible. I don't, for some reason, they put me off. And as you've said, it's not only body. Dumb girls get dumb guys because all they are looking for in each other is pure physical beauty, and that can't sustain a relationship for a long time. You need to have brains, wit, and sense of humor which I think you have loads. And you look good also, so you're someone who doesn't need to worry. You'll find some good person, surely.<BR/><BR/>Secondly, about the friends, well, can't say much about that. That is inevitable. Not many people get to be with their friends all the time. Separation does come in eventually. But if you can still carry on being friends, you'll appreciate the relationship more someday when you grow up and think about it. Circle of life, keeps rolling.Ishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17052035008156593859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8364495212408310792.post-15737934842572742662008-03-21T12:23:00.000+04:002008-03-21T12:23:00.000+04:00Ooh.I'll tell you something.Girl (to me): And he s...Ooh.<BR/><BR/>I'll tell you something.<BR/><BR/>Girl (to me): And he said, "Who likes flat screens?"<BR/>Me: Uh huh.<BR/>Girl: It's all about the body, girl. Don't I know it? That's what I tell everybody. All these guys, they just die for the boobs. That's it.<BR/><BR/><BR/>But think about it, flat screens are the latest craze. Everybody who can afford it is out buying them.Espèrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00312759044190536243noreply@blogger.com